Thanks to you both!! Such wonderful wisdom and I feel blessed as you’re pushing me along to the other side. Today was a good day. I confirmed an actual earlier move in date to Jan 3rd with landlord and movers and am putting all the logistics in motion.
I also was able to get further confirmation today on even more lies and that he has in fact been unofficially labeled as suffering from narcissistic personality disorder. This is what I’ve been suspecting for a year or so now.
I understand this disorder and have given him over two years to address his issues and look inward. Nothing has come of it other than exhausting me, bringing me down, him spending every penny I earn, and losing myself.
I’m so excited to move forward.
thank you all again for your compassion.