Dear levi:

It seems like you are being picked on. Here is what I suggest: if and when it happens again, let’s say at the beach, or at the store, approach the ridiculing person and stand straight in front of him or her, looking them straight in the eye, and say, in a strong voice, something like: did you say something that I should hear? People will usually not re-offend when confronted.

About porn, I wish porn (gay, straight, any kind) did not exist: this is my personal feeling about it. And it seems that it has a negative effect on you, seems like it is bad for you, isn’t it?

anita