Dear Hello:

You are welcome, good to read that the move is progressing as planned! “He’s still love bombing and going into bouts of crying saying he doesn’t understand every so often“-

– He had a great opportunity to understand 4 years ago, when you tried to talk to him about your progress in counseling: “I saw a counselor at the beginning of our marriage and did a ton of personal work… He never once wanted to know about my progress or discussed it with me even when I tried to“, Nov 25, 2022),

and he had another great opportunity to understand a year ago when he finally agreed to attend counseling with you: “I told him he had to see a counselor at the beginning of the year. He did but he used the time to construct the narrative that I was the bad guy for ‘making him go’ and came out on the other end angry and bitter at me“, Nov 25.

So, when he now says that he doesn’t understand, he is like a boy who doesn’t get what he wants, and frustrated and upset, he exclaims: but WHY? He doesn’t really want to know the reasons why he doesn’t get what he wants, he just wants what he wants.

I am looking forward to your next update!

anita