Dear Arie1276:

I kept reading your recent post waiting for the big discovery, that he is cheating on you, or something like that, but didn’t get there. One “Hi” message to a woman who is single, is not evidence of anything: it could be a girlfriend of one of his male friends, right?

I can’t tell of course anything much about your husband’s character, other than it seems like he is hard-working and he cares for his friends a lot.  Is he still spending hours at the gym, plus working nights and weekends and you hardly see him?

anita