Key when that happens, when you feel jealous and angry, is to calm down before you act, because when we are hurt and angry.. our intelligence goes down and we act against our own interests and against the interests of the person we are trying to help.- yes that was wrong of me, I realised after calming down.

That possessiveness adds to the burden of the person you are trying to help.– The thing is I just couldn’t see her crying and curled up in a corner because she did mention that she still cries at night when she thinks of her cat.

Nonetheless it frustrates me that I was thinking all that but she dropped me like I was one of her issues even if it was a reaction, I could never think of dropping her like that. And the problem is that I am still attached to her, even though she didn’t value me enough. Anyways thanks for responding Anita.