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Dear Anita,
thanks for your congratulations 🙂
I’ve just finished my exams, but unfortunately, they didn’t go well despite all the effort I put into preparing for them. It’s disappointing, but I’m not giving up. I’ll try again.
Lately, I’ve been feeling like my siblings are mad at me or hate me. One of my sisters, who lives in Europe, has been pretty rude. She asks me for help and money, but she never says thank you. i feel like She blames me for her visa problems and that she is not getting job in europe, even though I have nothing to do with it.i used to send job advertisment but stopped after her rude behaviour. she an my family even thinks I’m stopping her from coming to Germany, which is not true at all.why would i do that . she wanted from me to be good with her that i value her after my wedding but i couldnt deliver like that as i was busy with my things.
Whenever I talk to her, it feels like she’s holding a grudge. Before my wedding, another sister accused me of being selfish. She said I could have helped more siblings move to Europe but chose not to because i dint want anyone to be prosper and have better life .It really hurt, especially right before my big day. Later, I found out it was my older sister spreading these rumors and badmouthing me to everyone.
it feels like they made a group and i am the villain of everyones story..