I should probably add some context to the met a girl part, Im in England and she lives in Ireland just a short flight away. I really like her and it feels like we have both a physical and emotional connection which is great. I have told my ex that I am going to get out there and meet new people, So i dont see that I am doing anything wrong.

We havent labelled our “thing” together and what it is and where its going but I kinda like that I have someone who seems to just get what I am going through whilst also gives me plenty of space to be myself and the great dad I want to be.

I just didnt want you to think i’d jump into another relationship with someone, it has been extremely casual in that once a month I fly there and we get on really well, have fun together etc – but then i fly home and we dont see each other for another month apart from video calls. I just wanted to make that a little clearer 🙂