Dear Clara:

I hope you are sleeping now, it being after midnight, your time.

“I told her she can take her time and if needed, just stay for the night. I offered to help her pack“- that’s very nice of you!

It’s a good idea that you are staying at your parents’ at this time.

“complicated as in, there are times when I get angry, times when I feel ok, times when I was very upset and needed to cry, times when I do not even have feelings for her when I look at the photos of us together. It’s a lots of different things.“- all normal things when a person is going through a break up, particularly of a long-term relationship.

It will get better and easier.

anita