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  • February 9, 2026 at 10:29 am #455054
    Laura
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    so to get right to the chase, i am in highschool and near my house theres been a deployement basically alot of really attractive navy guys are now in my city, a few days ago i was out with my friends and met some of them and started talking to one of them. Now heres where my mistake steps in, he asked me how old i was and i wasnt really honest..hes 21 and i told him im 18. Now our actual age gap isnt all that crazy, i know multiple people in it, but i still panicked and havent told him the truth. I feel so bad but hes so nice and ive never felt like this about someone, im scared that telling him might actually mess things up. Hes going home in March and coming back after summer so im thinking of waiting till my birthday? Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks!

    February 9, 2026 at 10:55 am #455055
    anita
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    Hi Laura:

    You told the 21 year-old navy guy that you’re 18 while you’re 17?

    🤍 Anita

    February 9, 2026 at 11:17 am #455058
    Laura
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    yeah, not my brightest moment

    February 9, 2026 at 11:39 am #455061
    anita
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    Hey Laura:

    Nice photo. Well, it wasn’t terrible. We are all human beings 6and therefore we make mistakes. Even he does (the 21 year-old navy guy).

    If he’s reasonable, he’ll understand. You can give him a.. coupan good for one little lie he can tell you sometime 😉

    ✨️ Anita

    February 9, 2026 at 11:46 am #455062
    Laura
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    Hey Anita,

    thanks! Also, I think that’s actually a very very cute idea. I’ll remember it.

    Laura

    February 9, 2026 at 12:09 pm #455063
    anita
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    Thank you, Laura, for cute-ing my idea 💡

    💡 🤍 😊 Anita

    February 9, 2026 at 12:35 pm #455065
    Thomas168
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    Society does not like men messing with children especially little girls. This is not to say that you can’t meet and talk. It is a warning that actions have consequences. You may not experience any cause you are the little girl. But, the man can end up with serious penalties. Be honest. I am fairly sure that whatever it is you think you have (relationship) can wait a year.

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