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anita
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Confused: “I want the connection back”

Maybe if you stop wanting it back, maybe it will come back.

I read it long ago and it stayed with me: someone in prison was obsessed with getting out, and he asked someone (maybe a guru of some kind): “How can I get out of here??? How can I be free???”

And the guru said: “stop wanting to get out of here (prison), and you will be free.”

When you keep wanting to feel what you felt pre- Nov, that keeps you stuck. But if you grieve pre- Nov and let it go, a new freedom might emerge.

What thinks Confused?

🌿 🎶 🌴 Anita