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How Can I Stop Wanting Food So Often, Even When I’m Not Hungry?

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    Kevin
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    Throughout the day, my inner monologue spontaneously says “I want food,” even when I’m not hungry.

    My current strategy is to mentally respond, “If I’m not hungry, I shouldn’t eat,” every time the thought pops up. This works, but repeatedly telling myself no feels disappointing and makes life less enjoyable.

    I’ve recently tried a different approach: simply ignoring the thoughts and continuing with whatever activity I was doing before the thought popped up. However, my brain keeps repeating “I want food” throughout the day, and the desire remains very strong. I’ve tried this for a week without noticing much improvement. My questions are thus:

    1. Will these thoughts and desires naturally become much less intense if I continue this approach for longer (e.g., a month)? Or are there more effective strategies?

    2. In contrast, is repeatedly reminding myself why I shouldn’t eat actually the only truly effective solution? I’m willing to do that if necessary; I just want to know what actually works.

    Would really appreciate hearing from people who’ve experienced something very similar and found ways to make the thoughts and desires less intense, rather than solely becoming better at resisting them.

    #462008
    anita
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    Hello again, Kevin 🙂

    Yes, I experienced a whole lot of “I want food”.

    What worked for me is neither #1- telling myself that I shouldn’t eat because I’m not hungry, nor #2- ignoring the thought (because the thought didn’t ignore me 😵‍💫)

    What worked for me was the felt-experience of what it is that I was so very hungry for. I was hungry not for food, but for feeling like a child, a carefree child playing with other kids.

    I didn’t get to experience that as a child because I was troubled, lonely, and felt too responsible and sad for my mother, and therefore I lacked the experience of being free to be a child.

    Fast forward half a century (!), I got to be a child in 2 social settings, gradually and increasingly, over the course of 8-9 years. Actually, the profile photo you can see, that’s me dancing (Halloween, 2 years ago), truly feeling like a child, or a teenager.

    Any of this resonates?

    💃 Anita

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