Hi Jade- I don’t think so- it is a possibility and any input was going to be appreciated.Sometime at the beginning of an attraction or even just a friendship some aspect of that person’s character comes across as negative, until you see the lighter side.Perhaps I should have explained that way to begin with.Having a superiority complex manifesting yet feeling compassion for the inferiority complex hidden does show a certain compassion towards this person;perhaps anyone should make use of the compassion felt to actually ease the pervasive sense of obnoxiousness and replace it with a dose of comic humour- it might ease the tension, hope it helps