Hi Jamie,

Everyone is different and you need to find your answer through this difficult journey. I agree that if you are still this upset, you probably should check in on yourself in say 6 months. Or until you do not gave the emotions welling up.

In my case, when my marriage ended, it took several years before she and I were able to move past the challenging emotions. We are really ok now, we help each other and work together for our kids, but it’s not like we would get together like friends.

Besides giving yourself time, it is true what people say re: if you focus on personal development, that will help you in many ways.

I hope this helps.

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