Hi Anonymous

You cant change someone’s perception of you. If someone sees you as an enemy, you cant do much. If someone sees you as a goddess, you cant do much either. Everyone has their own lenses on, through which they see people and these perceptions change with self growth, time etc.

What you can do is be YOU. You are a loving, peaceful and powerful being. Be that.

Love is neither fruitful or destructive. It is just an emotion and everyone feels it differently. You need to just focus on giving yourself the love that you need to get past this incident. No act is foolish or heroic. Our mind makes it either way. We can train our mind to do what we want it to do 🙂

Some people grieve or hurt for a day, some for weeks, some for months and some for ever. But how long we continue this process depends on just us. The choice to move on forward in life is purely in our hands.

Take the best out of this relationship and move forward with your head held high up. Be proud of yourself and what you can offer yourself.

Blessings and may your heart get some peace.

Jasmine