@taiki3 Hi Dylan Cron

I am so sorry for your pain. Please know you are not alone in this difficult time.

Ending a long-term relationship is not easy for anyone. However, you should look at the positives that have come out of this relationship rather than focus on the negatives. Negativity breeds more negativity but an ability to see blessings even in difficult times can prove very fruitful and meaningful for everyone concerned.

You are feeling hurt, betrayed and lonely – this is so natural and a much needed experience to grow you into a better version of Dylan -someone who will be compassionate and much more kind in the future. So tend to your needs FIRST AND FOREMOST. Let go of your pain – cry if you need to; ring family if need be; ring some friends if you need to; talk to the trees or birds in the nature if you have no one who can listen.

Let the pain / tears flow and once you are over the acute pain in a few days, give yourself a big pat and hug.

Then think of ways that you can move forward such as moving out, doing other activities where you can meet new people and make new friends etc.

Hang in there mate. You are much bigger than this experience and you will be just fine if you let it be. Storms come and go. Nothing stays permanent. This sad experience wont stay there forever either. Learn the lessons and keep marching ahead with your head held high up.

SMILE PLEASE 🙂

Jasmine