“I forgot to mention something. I poured my heart into a letter for her last year and she really didn’t care. She doesn’t care to know how im doing for what it seems like, so is this clear that she doesn’t care anymore? Or is she still hurt?”

It is clear she doesn’t care anymore. Whether this is because she is still hurt or simply because she’s moved on is besides the point. She doesn’t care anymore. There’s nothing you can do about that. I’m sorry for your pain. Let her go.

May I also advise you to ignore everything Christopher has said? You don’t have to go out there and mass-collect phone numbers. Nor do you have to live up to what Tom Brady would do, whoever he is. It’s ok to take a little time to mourn this relationship, to let it truly deeply sink in that she’s gone, before you try to meet someone new. It’s also ok to get out there and get to know more people, just to make friends and maybe find a new girl. It’s also ok to hit the dating scene hard if that’s what you want to do. What I wouldn’t suggest is some kind of focussed girl-hunt where you set yourself a target of how many phone numbers you need to ask for.

Be kind to yourself. You’re hurt.

My best wishes.