Dear Jack,

Interesting topic!
I wonder, how long did it take you, to identify all those different aspects? I think i might need quite a while to figure all of them out.

A while ago, somebody made me aware of this, and she referred to a book called ‘Voice Dialogue’ – if i remember well.
She compared it to be a busdriver, where you have a lot of different people who all have something to say, and you have to drive the bus safely and efficiently to his destination. That we need to learn, to recognise them but decide who gets to say his say when. Something like that.

I don’t have any insight in those different aspects in myself, and i think it would be good to take a look at it. To be able to identify: this is Scared Sann, this good-hearted Gerda, this is Wise Wendy, this is Anxious Andrea, this is Brave Betty, this is Naive Natalie… Is it good to let them have their say now, or should i tell him or her, to sit on his chair and let somebody else have the show..?

Sorry, i hope i’m not disturbing your topic.
But i wanted to say that i’m impressed with the thoroughness you can identify all of them.
Do you do much negotiation work between them, or do they get to have their go when they want?