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Posts by Ashleigh Spurgeon

Ashleigh Spurgeon is a writer, mom, and creative learning to let go of perfection and embrace grace in everyday life. She shares reflections on motherhood, creativity, and finding beauty in small moments at @elliesparkscreative

Breaking Free from the Constant Need to Be Better

“Enough is a decision, not a condition.” ~Unknown

The night sky above Disneyland shimmered in color as fireworks burst to life. My daughters leaned against me, sticky-fingered from melted ice cream, eyes wide with wonder. It was supposed to be the happiest place on earth.

Then Mirabel’s voice from Encanto echoed through the speakers: “I will never be good enough. Will I? No matter how hard I try.”

Something inside me broke.

Sitting cross-legged on the pavement surrounded by thousands of smiling families, I sobbed. Not a dainty, delicate tear but the kind of quiet, chest-aching cry you hope no …