Posts by Melinda Gonzalez

Melinda Gonzalez is a radiographer living in Houston, Texas.  After being diagnosed with an “incurable” illness she decided her life needed some attention. She went on an emotional healing journey that continues to teach and inspire her every day. She currently writes a blog about her life and budgeting at www.budgetingcake.com, and is planning to start a blog about her journey back to wholeness and health.

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Getting to the Root of Pain to Work Through It and Be Happy

“The secret of joy is the mastery of pain” ~Anais Nin

I come from a family of runners. They run from pain, emotions, and uncomfortable feelings.

My mom was 17 when she moved to Texas to get away from her overbearing mother. She couldn’t deal with the pain of never being enough for her parents or herself. She left her parents, extended family, and friends behind in Mississippi without a second glance.

A recovering anorexic, she was looking for something, anything that would ease the pain and prove she was okay.

My father arrived in Texas in his …