That’s it , means I am lost now and I do not know what to do .

What if you do escape your father’s meanness and domination and join your boyfriend in an adventure, the two of you escaping the society that will condemn you and live elsewhere, far away, untouched by your father and his society?

I wish this was possible.. But some circumstances won’t allow us to leave the country we are in. Though we can in the coming years

Unfortunately, you are in a difficult situation with no possible easy solution. It will be easier maybe to obey your father, but how will your life be, marrying someone he wants you to marry, someone he will choose for you.. how will that be like for you…

See that is what I can’t do.. I can’t marry someone else.. If my father had valid reasons for the boy. I would have considered leaving him.. But he isn’t anything my father says he is.. Everyone else who knows about me and my boyfriend.. Loves him as a an amazing human being.. It’s just my father who can’t see it..

You have a very true and valid point that even if I stay home, my dad will never change or be nice to my mom.. It just hurts so bad to see. A father do all these things.. I wonder whyy..

In 25 years of my life I have not spoken to him for more than 5 minutes.. But tomorrow I am going to confront him.. And try to convince him.. Do you think i should do that anita?

So you suggest I leave the house? If my father says that

Cause I am going to try and convince him one last time tomorrow for allowing me to marry him.. But I am afraid he will say get out of my house if you want to marry that boy..

The one thing I am worried that once I am kicked out of my house.. Who will take care of my mother.. My dad has always been a mean person to her..

And society will disgrace me.. For leaving my parents for a boy I love. That means I chose my love over my parents.