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Yes it’s that feeling I know all too well. It’s come up various times but I’m not sure where from. Maybe since I’m adopted and cone from a reserved family I always felt a little left out or seeking approval
AmyParticipantI guess I am still trying to figure out who I am in a sense. Perhaps I need to focus on my life I rather than what others have?
AmyParticipantThank you Mark. I do try and focus and appreciate what I have. I just need to practice that more. I’m glad it’s not seen as a flaw of myself
AmyParticipantOn the one hand I think it’s great and I’m very happy for her. On the other hand I worry that she will be thinner than me and I’ll end up putting weight on.
AmyParticipantThank you for your reply Anita. I think it’s something I needed to hear-that reassurance that it’s okay
AmyParticipantThank you so much for your help. I feel much better about the situation. I’ll just explain to my friends that it’s up to them whether they invite him otherwise I feel I’m being unfair
AmyParticipantCould I still accept it and let it go but at the same time not hang round with him? I said to my friends I can’t really hang round with him anymore as he’s been so rude/awkward in my point of view. Or perhaps i should try to ignore that
AmyParticipantJust to add I know that we can’t all be the same with everyone and we get along better with some than others. Perhaps that’s just it I just need to not over think it or take it personally?
AmyParticipantThe thing is me and my bf have been together for 5 years now and it’s always felt like he’s been awkward . I messaged him and he has no clue about it and doesn’t see any issues. So I guess it’s a misunderstanding but I’m not sure I can compare how he acts towards the others as opposed to me
AmyParticipantYes perhaps it is a misunderstanding as he still wants to include me in his wedding. I should just message him
AmyParticipantThank you for your reply. I guess I am kinda pissed that they don’t see it? He talks lots with them and asks them how they’re doing but basically ignores me and my partner. I should point out that we used to go out years ago but it was short lived and we were good friends
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