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  • in reply to: Father diagnosed with cancer #89868
    Andi
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    It is perfectly normal to feel like this upon hearing your father’s diagnosis, this is pretty heavy news. Try to put your energy from worrying into being strong and helping your father. Talk to him, he is probably scared too. You obviously love him a lot, that is evident by your post.

    Don’t worry, you did not lose your friends. At some point, share what you are going through with them. True friends will understand why you were upset and won’t take it personally. Also sharing your feelings with them might help you cope better. Take care and sending good thoughts to you and your father.

    in reply to: Life at crossroads…please Help #78967
    Andi
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    Antonio,
    First off, you should be very proud and happy about your job opportunity, five years of searching for anything and not giving up is an accomplishment in itself. I do not know your girlfriend, she could be the best person in the world or your true love. But from what you have written, she, not you, is being selfish. If you two are meant to be, you guys will survive; maybe she will relocate, who knows. Funny enough I am rereading one of my favorite books The Alchemist (you should read it if you haven’t already), it is about the journey to fufill our “personal legend” aka our purpose, destiny. Your story reminds me of a line in the book. Good luck to you, and don’t let anyone dictate what your journey is.

    “Love never keeps a man from pursuing his personal legend. If he abandons that pursuit, it’s because it wasn’t true love.”-The Alchemist

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