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  • June 20, 2019 at 9:42 am #299971
    Vicky
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    Hi Anita,

    I agree with what you said. You got everything right about me. I fear to loose people to other women or friends. I act straight showing people that I love women and want a relationship with a women.

    I cannot come like a gay men in front of my family. They will stop loving me and disown me. It is considered a taboo from where I come from.

    I meditated after you suggested me to and it felt very good. I love your advice and thinking of acting on it. How would you say I reduce the fear of losing people to other women or friends or how do i not worry that they spend time or talk to me daily.

    Thanks

    June 19, 2019 at 6:09 pm #299889
    Vicky
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    Hi Anita,

    before i start telling you anything I want to say how thankful I am for all your help. I have always been very much attached to my friends since the beginning. The reason was because I never got the comfort from anyone else. Though my family loved me a lot but due to a lot of family things and stuff, I always used to feel insecure.

    i started resorting towards friends to get the same comfort from them. Whenever I became friends with anyone, I did a lot for them. People forget me as soon as they find love or new friends. I have seen that a lot.

     

    how do i remove the anxiety of losing friends to other people?

    June 19, 2019 at 12:48 pm #299857
    Vicky
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    Yes, I have lost everyone who I ever considered a good friend. The people with whom I enjoy the most and the people whom I look to the most, I have lost them all. I do so much for people but in the end people just use me and throw me away. No one understands how and what things hurt me and how badly I am affected. No matter what I do for people, they always leave as if nothing hapenned. This has been the reason of my anxiety.

    June 19, 2019 at 9:46 am #299825
    Vicky
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    Hi Anita,

    I agree with what you are saying. But what state I am is very difficult to think in straight way. I should be happy to meet new people and make new friends. Rather than that, the moment I make a new friend I get insecure that I will loose them. A constant thought is running in my mind thinking that they should message me or call me at least once a day. I am getting the same thoughts right now for my friend all the time. I think always that he should atleast send me a text or call me by himself and if I do not talk to him for a day then I start feeling very weird.

    How do I control this thing?

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