I’ve discovered this post and forum while googling “will they come back”.

HealingWords, I’ve written this down as a bit of a mantra:

“While you “wait for her”, live like you are not waiting, walk down your own path, follow your dreams, learn to be happy. If she does join you later in life, you will have a better life to share with her”

I think this is a perfect way to accept letting her go.

Miniature Bodhisattva and 365daysofkindness, what you have both said I believe is also a great way to look at it.

Someone also sent me this message on Instagram when I commented on a post about “the one”:

“If you are the one there is nothing to prevent you from being with her. Focus on you, not her”

We were together for 10 months and we broke up a year ago. Its taken me a year to get to this point. I’ve been messaging her occasionally and she always replies straight away but rarely lets her guard down emotionally. However I’m always the one to initiate. She was the one that broke it off. A few days ago after I messaged her she said she was “so sorry that all she could offer me was to have to heal from yet another breakup” (My marriage had ended a few months before we met as did her 6 year relationship. She also said it was too soon for both of us) I sent her a long (very positive and heartfelt) message about how I saw our relationship. She said “Thank you so much for all your beautiful words today. You always say the nicest things” Neither of us are in another relationship. She has been focusing on, as she says “personal growth” and its about time I did as well.