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  • August 29, 2018 at 10:44 am #223607
    Asja
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    Dear Friend

    I am not a psychologist to give recomendations.

    And suffered too as you are.

    Just want to give you a shoulder, and say .. stay positive dear.. things will gona be good.

    Life is going on.  Focus on good.

    March 25, 2018 at 7:22 am #199345
    Asja
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    Thank you Inky!

    Understanding if that people around find it not normal to be aggressive helped me to shift from that point where I stucked cause of bad behavior of husband…

    he would never agree on anything cause too stubborn, we passed it before when daughter was not even a year.

    But thanks God, my eyes opened now … I pray they stay widely open and I don’t forget to be careful and never stay in such relations … again…

    • This reply was modified 6 years, 1 month ago by Asja.
    March 25, 2018 at 7:19 am #199341
    Asja
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    I took days off to calm down and fix my mind and senses, to come back to my self and feel my self normal and fix that in mind, again and again … normal relations is love and care, understanding and support, of course we all have hard periods and should go through it.

    Thank you very much, it is very important to hear a voice of mind in such a moment when you stopped realize where is good where is bad….

    I am not full recovered and don’t know how we will go further, finish or take a brake in relations ( even now writing this I shake on negative emotions, I know that would never end… just empty promises ) but today I feel much better and self confident. Thank you very much for assistance and right words in right moment.

    March 24, 2018 at 10:43 pm #199301
    Asja
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    Thank you Anita your words give me more confidence that itis not normal things..

    I live in my own house and husband live with us, many times i wanted to divorce and separate, but in a few days or a week everything goes back. This time after quorrel and all what happend with it i  gained strength and decided to separate finally, 3 days passed.. and he changes everyday and try to use arguments to make me change mind… start from making me guilty, and try to make my mind it all my fault and his behaviour is result of it… Yesterday he changed to soft manner and looks sad.

    I try not to forget all bad words and behaviour, and harm, try not to forget how bad this for growing little daughter…

    Oh i ask God for strength.

    March 24, 2018 at 7:59 am #199199
    Asja
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    Really jumping in new relations without recover is not good idea…

     

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