Im almost the same age and was with a similar sounding guy for six years, he was eight years older. He really pulled his weight at home and work …drinking was a problem as were other issues.

For me, I kept thinking, ‘do i want my kids to turn out like him? Do i want him as a role model? He hasnt kept his promises the last six years is that going to change?

I answered NO to evrything, and realised i had to move on.

It was hard, but you are probably just in a comfort zone with him more than anything else. Relationships don’t fizz and pop with passion everyday, but there should be some….at least thats what I’m hoping for the next one…