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  • #358329
    Barbu
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    I’m concerned for the well being of a close friend.

    #358302
    Barbu
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    @Anady

    I see. What makes you think she does?

    #358301
    Barbu
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    Anita, she told him this before he sent her the apology message.

    #358209
    Barbu
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    She’s told him that she likes the idea of them trying something but she’s afraid of the result.

    What are your opinions of that?

    #357178
    Barbu
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    That’s why I’m particularly worried about her: I don’t want her to be hurt/ghosted again like last time.

    My friend has the knack of making it seem like she’s ok, when she really isn’t. I managed to get her to open up about how it had made her feel, and that’s when she told me that she’s had issues with her relationships and that it badly affected her and still does.

    I thought she was getting better because she started to see someone before last summer. They went on a trip together and I really thought she had put the past behind her.

    That’s when her ex sent her the apology and told her he still has feelings for her – when she was in the relationship.

    Her ex sent her a friend request soon after.

    All I know is that she didn’t accept it straight away.

    She and her boyfriend broke up, and that’s when I noticed that she had accepted her ex’s friend request.

    He hasn’t been in touch with her since.

    #357169
    Barbu
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    She was completely blindsided when he ghosted her and then for months she wasn’t the same. She told me about her issues with her relationships and how she never quite felt the same again.

    #357165
    Barbu
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    <p style=”text-align: right;”>We’ve known eachother since nursery, so a good 20 years.

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    We’re quite close and speak often to eachother, but not necessarily about her ex.

    #357152
    Barbu
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    Update:

     

    Just found out that my friend told her ex that she “likes the idea of them doing something together but she’s afraid of the result”

    This is probably why he’s told her he still has feelings for her and that he thinks he has a chance.

    #356820
    Barbu
    Participant

    But then again… she didn’t answer his apology… she just accepted his friend request (which was sent before)

    #356818
    Barbu
    Participant

    thanks Anita,

    The reason why I think she still likes him is that instead of ignoring him after he had told stuff like “I can’t stop thinking of you, morning, day and night, you are in my thoughts and in my heart”… he’s basically told her he still loves her no?

    She’s accepted his friend request… meaning the door is open?

    #356332
    Barbu
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    It sounds like a very tough situation you find yourself in.

    How long ago was this break up?

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