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June 12, 2020 at 1:58 am #358329
I’m concerned for the well being of a close friend.June 11, 2020 at 3:50 pm #358302
I see. What makes you think she does?June 11, 2020 at 3:50 pm #358301
Anita, she told him this before he sent her the apology message.June 10, 2020 at 5:57 pm #358209
She’s told him that she likes the idea of them trying something but she’s afraid of the result.
What are your opinions of that?May 29, 2020 at 11:45 am #357178
That’s why I’m particularly worried about her: I don’t want her to be hurt/ghosted again like last time.
My friend has the knack of making it seem like she’s ok, when she really isn’t. I managed to get her to open up about how it had made her feel, and that’s when she told me that she’s had issues with her relationships and that it badly affected her and still does.
I thought she was getting better because she started to see someone before last summer. They went on a trip together and I really thought she had put the past behind her.
That’s when her ex sent her the apology and told her he still has feelings for her – when she was in the relationship.
Her ex sent her a friend request soon after.
All I know is that she didn’t accept it straight away.
She and her boyfriend broke up, and that’s when I noticed that she had accepted her ex’s friend request.
He hasn’t been in touch with her since.May 29, 2020 at 9:37 am #357169
She was completely blindsided when he ghosted her and then for months she wasn’t the same. She told me about her issues with her relationships and how she never quite felt the same again.May 29, 2020 at 9:02 am #357165
<p style=”text-align: right;”>We’ve known eachother since nursery, so a good 20 years.
We’re quite close and speak often to eachother, but not necessarily about her ex.May 29, 2020 at 8:19 am #357152
Just found out that my friend told her ex that she “likes the idea of them doing something together but she’s afraid of the result”
This is probably why he’s told her he still has feelings for her and that he thinks he has a chance.May 25, 2020 at 1:15 pm #356820
But then again… she didn’t answer his apology… she just accepted his friend request (which was sent before)May 25, 2020 at 1:14 pm #356818
The reason why I think she still likes him is that instead of ignoring him after he had told stuff like “I can’t stop thinking of you, morning, day and night, you are in my thoughts and in my heart”… he’s basically told her he still loves her no?
She’s accepted his friend request… meaning the door is open?May 24, 2020 at 8:36 pm #356332
It sounds like a very tough situation you find yourself in.
How long ago was this break up?