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  • April 16, 2014 at 4:04 pm #54899
    Stefanie
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    I’m in total agreement. It is an addiction. It does take time. Every day gets easier.
    But of course easier said then done especially when it is yourself that is going through it.
    Don’t think of it as losing. We are the winners cause after we get through this we will be better off.

    April 16, 2014 at 5:10 am #54852
    Stefanie
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    I too was in a relationship with a narcissist. I did everything for him financially and feel very stupid. He now has found another “sucker”” to use but for whatever reason still wants to hold on here. He wants multiple relationships.

    One thing I keep trying to tell myself as I try to let go is that “I am the winner.” I’m breaking away and he is going to be someone else’s problem.

    April 15, 2014 at 8:22 pm #54828
    Stefanie
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    I’m struggling with this now. Feel like someone punched me in the stomach. Long term relationship but when I sit back I can see that this man was emotionless and selfish. I was always at fault for whatever happened to me. I could see my future with him would be very cold but trying to walk away is killing me emotionally. If I stop thinking about walking away, I feel better. I dread the loneliness but we have had a long distance relationship for 4 years and yes think about it, I have been alone. This struggle with heart and mind is hard.

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