Fe Martin,
There are all kinds of men, just as there are all kinds of women. I know for a fact that there are women who leave men in their wake and move on with no regrets. In general, I think a lot of women just aren’t attracted to men who act decently. If we show kindness or sensitivity, we aren’t seen as manly enough. Most women don’t want a guy who actually has emotions. So, most men probably don’t care about the women they have left behind, and the men who do are probably those that have been dumped by a woman for not being exciting or macho enough. The awesome part comes when you get top the point where you just don’t care any more, when you can be happy with yourself without needing some guy or girl to disrespect you. A lot of the posts on this website have helped me get closer to that point.
Tim