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July 20, 2022 at 12:13 pm #404295
<p style=”text-align: center;”>I will try the non pharmaceutical way and yes iam aware of what you mention in the boldface and so is it normal to lose sexual desire when experiencing anxiety</p>
July 20, 2022 at 10:55 am #404292
Yes your guidance so far helped me I wish to have more as for the past two days l was able to feel more better as it’s looked like everything is coming together like my life is becoming normal again and gaining some confidence but those thoughts still come again during the day and now I eventually suffer from difficult breathing especially at nights but in the morning I wake up feeling good the problem start during the day and eventually become bad at nightJuly 17, 2022 at 11:02 pm #404173
Growing up I always wanted to understand women because it has been always difficult creating a relationship with them I always wanted someone like a father to help me understand to teach me how to love a women , how to take care of them , what qualities a men should have ?
And yes most of the time l would feel like my mother choosed my step father over me l feel worthless of love like I didn’t experience the love of both my parents and another thing which I thought affected me that my father has denied access to when I was young only started talking to him nowJuly 17, 2022 at 11:40 am #404152
Growing up until now I have never stayed with my mother ,me and her separated when I was 6 years old because she got married to my step father so I never had a close relationship with her but she has been financially support in my life so I always stayed with my granny and the sisters of my mother so as they always showed me loved but their others things I am afried to to talk about them to them which I needed the support of male to guide me which I did not have but iam okay with that so usually that is true I and my mother have been having a relationship of something like friendship and I have never trusted a girl in my life except my mother and his sisters so l would struggle a most when it comes to creating a friendship with women so even those thougts are affecting my life negative been in this really help me iam learning to accept every emotion even if it is bad or good I believe that one day I just sit and look at how I fought against those thoughts as I believe they happen to any one and they are improving our minds to be stronger in future problems like thoseJuly 17, 2022 at 8:29 am #404137
After reading all the 13 pages with dedication it has helped me alot to understand my problem which is fear.I fear a lot in a way that I can’t perform my daily activities somehow I have found peace with my those nagative thoughts that they just came to make feel bad . Usually at night I feel better knowing that iam a straight male as I fell asleep imagining the life with the women I love raising children together but when I wake up those thoughts came back and make my day horrible because I know iam straight and lam attracted by women as because even now as iam affected by this thoughts I get turned on by women clearly iam sexually attracted to them . Iam scared that l will never be in a relationships with a girl coz those thoughts make feel less a man keep asking my do I truly love my women crush’s enough or will I ever love a women enough or will l lose sexual interest in girls one day iam really confused sometimes want to be in love with the girl l love sometimes I don’t want love I even ask my self if it is because I grow up without a father I didn’t experience the love of a father because all my friends had girlfriend during our school days until now but I never had any I always wanted to focus on my studies building my future . Even though I know lam straight attracted to girls and have crushs but iam always scared of entering in a relationship with a girl clearly I don’t know what to doJuly 16, 2022 at 8:06 am #404112
<p style=”text-align: left;”>Dear Anita</p>
<li style=”text-align: left;”>Am studying law and my relationships were doing very well until those disturbing thoughts came I konw that iam straight but something thing in my mind keep on say am less a man yoh iam really feeling bad
<p style=”text-align: left;”></p>July 16, 2022 at 7:37 am #404107
I have been a straight male all my life but now iam 20 years old as I started questioning my sexuality have negative thoughts of being gay while I know that iam attracted to females , l am very depressed started losing interest in every thing including my studies and even pushing my friends and family members away ,and iam really confused as I have never dated anyone before iam really emotionally disturbed.