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  • March 7, 2014 at 2:09 pm in reply to: Am I not able to be in a relationship? #52485
    Csaba
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    The reason I wrote this because I honestly don’t know. The ones you said are there but they never overwhelmed me, most of the time I can overcome the destructive thoughts, this is more like a bad feeling, that gets stronger, and stronger. I honetly don’t know and it just tears me apart to let this amazing girl go.

    February 26, 2014 at 3:29 am in reply to: What should I do? #51814
    Csaba
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    Hello everyone, it has been a long time since I posted this, and I just wanted to tell you that, the problem has been solved a long time ago.

    I started going to the gym and I started singing with a teacher, and I love to do the both of these, never would have I imagined that I would do these in my life ever, and both of them happened randomly.

    I just went to the gym with one of my body building buddie to try it and absolutelly fell in love with it. My singing teacher I met thought the new college I’m going to, and I just cant stop doing it. Both of these things fill out just as much time of my life as I wanted to, and I feel like a whole again.

    As you can see, life solved the problem for me, and if you are struggling with this question too, it will solve it for you too, just be brave enough to try new things.

    February 26, 2014 at 3:24 am in reply to: Is there something wrong with me? #51813
    Csaba
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    Thank you for your answer. I knew I was wrong with this. One of the causes may be that my parents were the first ones for eachother, they met when they were 14, they married when they were 18 and they are currently 51, and I have never seen them quarell. It’s that rare true love that only happens to a few. For a long time I thought that life for me will be the same, that I will meet that one true love and I will live with her happily ever after. It could still happen but I’ll need to work on a lot of things to make myself able to handle a true relationship 🙂 Thanks for your answer again, I’m going to work on this.

    November 8, 2013 at 1:50 pm in reply to: Is there an easy way to forget? #45020
    Csaba
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    Thank you for all you who answered. You don’t know how much this means for me. I will cope withb the situation, I’ll just need some time. Thank you for the encouragement.

    May 17, 2013 at 10:33 am in reply to: Trouble letting go and trusting the Universe #35800
    Csaba
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    I can truly relate to that. I have been questioning the meaning of life nowadays and I just can’t create with the thought that no matter how great it is, it will just turn to dust one day like anything else, it kills my creativity. My biggest fear is that there are two possible answers:

    1. There is a purpose to living, we come here to learn and there is a higher power that somehow protects us. This theory gives me some sort of comfort but I can’t just blindly believe it because there is a much scarier alternative that:

    2. There is no higher power, the universe is infinite and because it is: no matter how slight the chance is for us humans to appear we did because we could, because everything could happen if the universe is infinite. But this just scares me because this means that we have no purpose whatsoever. It means that well die one day and nothing has changed.

    Has anybody fought with these kind of thoughts nowadays?

    May 17, 2013 at 1:51 am in reply to: Am I a horrible person? #35789
    Csaba
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    First of all I want to thank You for writeing such a long answer and telling me all of this.

    To answer your question, throughout my life I have always been sort of a maximalist. Even my parents told me that whenever somebody yelled at me I was just in a complete shock, i couldn’t do anything after it, it just ate me away inside because I always think that the problem is with me, and I try to find an answer. This has coused me a lot of disadventages. Eg. when I was learning to drive my teacher would always yell at me or be mean to me if I made a mistake, and this ended with me after 30 hours of driving, failing my exam after 10 minutes. This was one year ago, I couldn’t continue my driving after it because I had summer work and after that school started. I want to continue it in june after I’m finished with my school and I’m thinking about maybe seeing somebody else to teach me. I don’t know why but I come to this problem a lot of times, where if people yell at me I just completelly lose all confidence in myself, where in reality they might just have a bad day or a bad period in their life. I think this is a huge life lesson for me, that I will have to cope with.

    Thank You for your answer again, it has been eye-opening for me.

    May 16, 2013 at 11:37 am in reply to: Am I a horrible person? #35709
    Csaba
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    Thank you for your answer, truly, for some reason you just said the answer I was looking for. For some reason I thought that I need to stand by her at any costs, but I now realised by doing so I would have given up my happiness for somebody that did not treat my right. Thank you for your response.

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