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  • February 19, 2015 at 3:36 pm in reply to: Getting Past a Painful Movie? #73028
    Pamela
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    Well, I won’t be as July 9 is my birthday and I already have plans. But I will think about you and send you some cyber hugs! Much Love!

    February 18, 2015 at 1:22 pm in reply to: Getting Past a Painful Movie? #72956
    Pamela
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    Marc,
    I actually did enjoy “My big fat greek wedding” because it is different from other movies of the same genre. I just get tired of the attitude that “because I’m a girl I HAVE to like chick flicks (typically they are the romantic comedies or movies such as the notebook (which I refuse to watch, ever.)).”

    I love and appreciate everyone for their individuality, so big wonderful walrus hugs right back to you! If I ever see you around, I’ll be sure to give you a hug! You are such a wonderful, kind person. I can tell this from your posts. Have a blessed day!

    -Pamela

    February 17, 2015 at 4:36 pm in reply to: Getting Past a Painful Movie? #72914
    Pamela
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    I am very empathic, but I wouldn’t describe myself as an HSP. I wouldn’t, however, EVER make fun of someone who is that sensitive! Everyone is different, and everyone finds entertainment in their own way. I find myself bothered by “rom coms” because they are all the same, and “why can’t I find love like that?” Which is part of being so empathic. So I choose not to watch them. Since I’m a female, and prefer the movies that you find offensive, I actually get “sneered at” because I don’t like “chick flicks.” Well, it takes all types to fill the world. If everyone liked the same type of movie, the world would be very boring. If we were all empathic, or all HSP’s, then the world would be boring as well. We need all types of people, and we need to quit judging and making fun of those who are different.

    So go find yourself a wonderful sappy rom com and watch it for me. I’ll do the same with an action flick 🙂 Namaste!

    February 17, 2015 at 4:30 pm in reply to: When all your friends are doing good in life but you… #72913
    Pamela
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    There’s a saying, “Wherever you go, there you are.” Sometimes (and I’m guilty of this as well, so I’m not judging you) it’s our thoughts that cause problems. It’s not that our friends are doing so much better, it’s the fact that we aren’t doing what we want to be doing. Not really. You see your friend essentially living “your dream,” which makes it harder to be happy for her. Well, she’s not living your dream, but neither are you. One book I’ve found that has REALLY helped me (two actually) change my thought processes and these changes have actually created a better life for me. One is “The Four Doors” by Richard Paul Evans, and the other is “The Compound Effect” by Darren Hardy. It’s not always our actions that create change. Change the way we think, and change our daily habits, and we can change our circumstances.

    I hope this helps 🙂

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