Hi there,

I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this confusion. I know this may seem odd but often times it’s in those times that we can create deep shift in our lives.

To answer your questions, I’m going to ask your few questions in return:

1- Are you focusing on “what’s wrong with you” or are you focusing on “what’s awesome about me? and “what do I want in my life and who I want to become?”

Where your focus goes, your energy flows. So if you keep focusing on what’s wrong, you’ll only get the wrongs. Focus on what you want instead.

2- What’s the story you’re telling yourself about yourself and about life?

3- I’m noticing that you’re saying why me indirectly, what are the silver linings or learnings you had from your negative experiences?

I hope this helps!

xo

I understand how painful this is…I’ve been there so many times especially that I moved from country to country, state to state….

Last year, I felt that I have my husband my dogs in my life… no social life, no fun outside of me and my husband… I was looking for some like-minded people for year but I often found an excuse to why I don’tget along with them ect…. I’m a big introvert and I don’t like to mix up with groups just for the sake of making friends. So, what I decided to make things happen for me… I set my intention of meeting like minded friends and I created a meetup group that I called: Spiritual, intellectual and super fun group. The description of the group was exactly what i desired. In my head I said: I have nothing to lose so I might as well make it the way I want. Guess what? Everyone who joined my group were very much like me. It was a great way to meet like-minded people.

One essential thing though is to accept reality…that’s what helped me move forward…., when we truly admire who we are and become friends with ourselves.. this is when we allow openness and spaciousness into our life…this is when we’re not afraid of rejection and instead we accept and welcome what is…