Hi samy:

Thanks for giving me some perspective. Yeah we may be obsessed with each other and that isn’t healthy. I mean that I don’t want to live my life being unfaithful and not REAL with the women I see. That’s why I’m trying to change. It just that this crazy woman still haunts me. So I have to set myself free even if it is painful right now.

Her reaching out to my exes bothers me because I don’t want them thinking the relationships we had were worse than they were. Like we ended things and then they find out years later that I was chatting and sexting and sometimes having phone sex with this woman. Guess it would make me feel shamed.

Hi samy:

Yes I hurt her deeply. I cheated on with a few women her and didn’t tell her. She wants to tell all of them what a POS I am even tho I don’t talk to them any more. I asked her what good that would do since I don’t talk to them anymore but she just wants to hurt me. I don’t want her to hurt my ex’s just because she’s so angry at me. I’m in counseling but didn’t want my past to keep haunting me. Thank you!

Hi samy:

Thank you for responding to my message here. I called a therapist to set up a meeting for next week. I made a choice to live a happier life where I can form real intimate relationships with a partner. The bad part is I continued to talk to my ex when I was dating other women, and now my ex is treating to destroy my life because I am not a good person. I feel like its going to get a whole lot worse before it gets better.