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  • November 7, 2018 at 8:24 pm #235923
    Dhwani
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    Dear Anita,

    I totally agree with you. Can’t fall into that trap at all.

    He used to work as a merchandise retail manager for Cosco for four-five year and later for another retail company until he decided to go for business.

    He has Bachelors in Business and now doing masters in Data Science, while also looking for jobs in the same field or related to IT.

    That’s all the information I have. The last chat we had, he said to me he is doing his best and applying for jobs day in day out. My issue with that is, before Xmas, no one seem to be hiring. He even updated saying this morning he applied for 6 jobs.

    I told him I wasn’t happy with his choice of decisions. He says, I know how disappoint you are, but I need to set my career for our better future and I am confident we will make it work.

    I hope that’s the case, otherwise I will have to make a decision to separate (no matter how heartbreaking it would be).

    Dhwani

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    November 5, 2018 at 7:39 pm #235623
    Dhwani
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    Hi B,

    Thanks heaps for writing back.

    I haven’t really helped him, it was either from his savings, an understanding flatmate and some earning he made before he decided to quit his last job. The only time I have helped him is when he’s come to see me and I would pay for our lunches and dinners.

    He’s told me the same that you wouldn’t want to marry an unemployed guy so let me fix this. But I just feel very let down by him.

    You are right, there’s nothing more I can do.

    Thanks,

    Dee

    November 5, 2018 at 4:46 pm #235601
    Dhwani
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    Hi Katie,

    From the sounds of it, you are do either like and love the guy who genuinely cares and treats you well, and personally, that should be highly regarded over everything else.

    Looks fade with age, what you need to see in a man he’s character, personality and how a great companion he can be to you.

    If your current boyfriend is treating you ill, then you should be out of this toxic relationship. Love isn’t how much you are attracted, but how much you both feel content and yourselves around each other.

    I hope you make a right choice.

    Take care,
    Dhwani

    November 5, 2018 at 3:18 pm #235597
    Dhwani
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    Hi Anita,

    Thank you so much for your reasonable options.

    So do you think the third option is should pick. Current scenario is, I have been seeing him apply for job in lot of government sectors. Not only that, I’ve helped him write cover letters and proof read lot of his applications too.

    I am just so hurt and let down to see that man at 32 who made me feel this way didn’t even think rationally about his career choices at all.

    What more can I do? Other than, wait for him to get a job and then see whether he will stick through it.

    Thank you,

    Dhwani

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