Hello everyone.

I know it’s a farshot to expect everyone here to see this, but I’m really grateful! I have been plagued by these thoughts and was blaming myself for being a bad person.

I’m currently in a relationship with this amazing girl. She’s a best friend’s best friend. We got talking and I realised I really like her. I expressed my feelings and it were reciprocated. I was ecstatic! As we spoke more and got to know each other, I realised how good this person is for me. Our thoughts, values, interests all aligned. It’s been 3 months and I’m suddenly struck by this overwhelming feeling of disconnect. Talking to her, meeting her doesn’t feel the same. I care about her so much. I don’t know if I should even tell her. I’ve been depressed and hating myself for the past week.

This thread has really given me a perspective. I’m feeling a bit better to know it’s not the absolute end.

If anyone has gotten over it, please revert. It’d mean the world! Thank you!