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  • in reply to: Lost my child #102589
    Evelyn
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    Hi again Dimple,

    It seems to be a once a year for me when I log in here. And I always manage to think of you and your precious daughter you lost. I can understand that life hasn’t been the same for you since then but I pray and hope that you have found some way to cope with this and that life isn’t always as tragic as it seems. I know words can’t help in any way but I just couldn’t not write to you again. My thoughts are still with you after 2 years now and I hope that you’ll find some peace in mind.

    Love

    Evelyn.

    in reply to: Fear life. #81256
    Evelyn
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    Dear Anita & Bethany,

    Wow thank both for your replies first of all and thank you for the great advice as well. I don’t think I actually looked at it from that angle, always thought I should fight to be fear-free instead of accepting fear as a part of life. I think if I can let myself be one with fear instead of fearing fear perhaps I can find it easier to meet all the things that I fear in life. I think I’ve always thought I could keep myself safe if I eliminated all the things I fear, instead I have just made the fears bigger. This also lies in my head, because my thoughts are my biggest distractions in life. I sometimes create things that haven’t even occurred or will occur. I create a event in my head and almost positive of the outcome. But that’s just it, life has no guaranteed outcome and those who can accept this and just role with life as it comes at you, they are the happy ones.

    Again, thank you both so much for your replies!

    in reply to: Lost my child #71205
    Evelyn
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    Dear Dimple,

    I haven’t been online here for awhile, but I thought of you today, so I logged in here to see how you’re doing? How you’ve been since the accident? My thoughts are with you and your family, hope you’re better and living life.

    Lots of love

    Evelyn.

    in reply to: Lost my child #53139
    Evelyn
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    Dear Dimple,

    A very close friend of mine lost her 25 year old brother 2 years ago, I’ve always wondered how she and her mother could bounce back into daily routine so quickly, she’s the same person she was before her loss, she still is the one that makes everyone else laugh, I’m not saying that she’s not still mourning or that she’s happy. I’ve always wonders where she’s gotten her strength from and how she’s managing life so well despite such a terrible loss. And she said she finds strength in everyone around her, in me as her friend (I’m always cheering her on, besides she’s given me so much strength in life, she has no idea), her mother that she loves so dearly. She knows she will meet him again, maybe not right now, but in the end they will all meet again.

    I guess the only thing in life you can ever have fully control of is your mind, but unfortunately the mind is well controlled by the heart, emotions can bring us to the happiest in life and they can break us so terribly. I found an old quote I always go back to where life gets tough, “Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how we react to it”, not that that’s easy to apply in ones life when you have lost such a dear person to you, your daughter. But the only thing life can guarantee us is the power and will we make to control our mind, because there will be things that happens to us and we can only let it defeat us or somehow keep living life, for others that you are dear to, for those who love you, for those who find strength in you. You are dear to many others, find strength in them, or perhaps in a stranger like me who finds strength in you for being able to write this here on a forum when it just happen so recently. Nothing is of guarantee in life only our own strength.

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