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September 11, 2025 at 1:42 am #449647
EvFran
ParticipantCorrection: yes, if you judge that I am not willing to listen….
Sorry, I have forgot the NOT.September 11, 2025 at 1:30 am #449646EvFran
ParticipantDear silvery blue,
I am not sure you are talking to me directly or generally…. yes, if you judge that I am willing to listen, it’s a good idea to discuss your qyestions wuth someone more valuable via email ๐
I would be interested though what people think about the questions you have raised. I find them very interesting, indeed and will think about it. It’s a pity you don’t wish to discuss it maybe in a separate thread. Take care ๐September 11, 2025 at 12:59 am #449644EvFran
ParticipantDear silvery blue,
Could you please be more specific about whose needs and what kind of needs exactly were not met here?
I felt that everybody could say whatever s/he wanted to any time. I haven’t read the initial threads, which caused harm, I can only reflect on what I have read in this thread, initiated by you. And I never had the feeling that I couldn’t participate. And I am very happy with the end of the conflict: two people could come to a satisfying agreement. It hasn’t been easy-breazy, as Tee says but it’s done. ๐๐ฅSeptember 10, 2025 at 11:02 pm #449639EvFran
ParticipantHi Laven,ย
I think you are a beautiful and very smart person. I could never express my feelings about my life with such intelligence like you! Like Thomas says: I can’t find the words to help. But I am listening.ย
So I join Anita:
“You are not stuck. You are surviving. You are not attention-seeking. You are voice-reclaiming. You are not too much. You are finally enough to name what was never named.”
And yes, please keep posting whenever you feel comfortable with it.
September 10, 2025 at 9:42 am #449625EvFran
ParticipantThanks Jany,I love resistance bands lately. It’s really easy to use them wherever you are.You can easily carry them to everywhere. ๐
September 10, 2025 at 4:06 am #449609EvFran
ParticipantI really enjoy this conversation and learning from it, thanks so much for bringing it up!
September 10, 2025 at 3:25 am #449604EvFran
ParticipantI am really enjoying it, too! I have been always wondering how much free will we really have in life…
September 10, 2025 at 2:32 am #449602EvFran
ParticipantVery beautifully poem, James. Ta.
September 6, 2025 at 4:07 pm #449438EvFran
ParticipantHi Nils, the same thing happened to me with Insta. One day I couldn’t log in. Out of the blue, my account was inaccessible without prior notice . At some point I got a message thatย my pictures hurt their turns and conditions. I couldn’t believe it as I only posted pictures of places, like beaches, flowers, animals. No humans, no obscene pictures, no comments. Honestly,ย I was using insta as a backup, to save a few pics in order to free space on my phone ๐ Basically, it’s not a big deal but their attitude really upset me. Especially because in order to reactivate my account, they wanted a photo of me holdingย my password written on a piece of paper in front of me I found it ridiculous. I definitely don’t want to do that They never answered to my question: exctly which picture had hurt their T&C!ย It’s a known fact that there are people selling drugs, even their body on Instagram and it’s fine with them.. My beaches and flowers seemed too dangerous. A strange world.ย
September 5, 2025 at 10:40 pm #449395EvFran
ParticipantHi Anita, I am here, too, although a bit sporadic. I usually read answers to questions I am interested in. I don’t react very much because I don’t feel I have enough knowledge or competence but I learn a lot from your and others’ answers ๐
May 20, 2025 at 11:59 pm #445965EvFran
ParticipantDear Anita, it’s so kind that you remember of my support back then. I just expressed my sincere and profound feelings. As usual ๐ And your message proves that I was right about you. You care about others!
I haven’t read about your sister… I will have to dig a bit deeper in tinybuddha.
My adventures are too long to talk about. Sometimes even I lose track of what happened yesterday:-)
In a nutshell: I left for india once I made sure that I couldn’t do more for my uncle and he was in the best hands possible. Unfortunately he passed away but in a very peaceful way and never had pain during his short fight with cancer. Now I think that maybe his denial helped him to cope with life. My indian trip was just sensational. I can’t wait to go back. When I got back to Europe, I had a phone call from a headhunter and got a contract immediately. Which I signed yesterday and then I had withdrawn from it, after a deeper consideration of being attached to something i don’t really want to. Money is good but it’s not all. I need to do something more meaningful, something that helps others and works for a community. So now, I am back to where i was a few weeks ago and making new plans. It’s been like this the last 4 years, so i am used to it and happy to reorganize my life. Of course, i don’t hurt anybody’s feelings and schedule with it, I am the only one concerned.
So I am happy and free to look for new perspectives and adventures.
It’s nice to see your profile pic!
Cheers, EvaMay 19, 2025 at 1:50 pm #445901EvFran
ParticipantDear Anita,
Thank you so much for your message. I am extremely sorry to reply so late! So many things have happened again unexpectedly. I really have to be flexible and adapt to situations which constantly change 180 degrees. It’s not bad, I am learning, it’s just a bit exhausting sometimes and it feels I am an alien among the people who are well settled and have their daily routine:-)
How have you been? I haven’t read the forum for some time, so I will go through the questions. I hope you are well and enjoy your days.
EvaDecember 28, 2024 at 12:26 am #441066EvFran
ParticipantDear Anita, just logged in after a few days and saw your nice surprise. Thank you so much! Actually, Christmas was very lonely. After cleaning my uncle’s flat throughly, I got so tired that I went to bed at 7 P.M. But today I feel better again, I shouldn’t think too much, just accept things as they are and get the best out of it. Which normally I do, it was just so difficult without all those loved ones who died during the last 3 years. I just imagined how nice and fun it would e if they were around. But I can’t change things, so will try to focus more on myself next year.
I hope you had a lovely time with friends and/or with family. Take care and have a nice weekend. ๐โ๏ธDecember 21, 2024 at 4:22 pm #440912EvFran
ParticipantThanks for your message, Anita. After a long reflection I have taken my decision, so I feel much better. I don’t know what the future will bring but I feel aligned and confident. Things can only get better, for sure ๐
I hope you’ll have a wonderful Christmas surrounded by people you love.December 9, 2024 at 8:03 pm #440053EvFran
ParticipantDear Anita,
Thank you so much for your wise words, I will keep your affirmations in mind.
I have taken my decision and it’s a good feeling. I can come back any time in case things turn worse
It’s comforting to know that I can count on your support.
Thank you.
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