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  • September 3, 2017 at 10:09 pm #166812
    Feefee
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    It’s great if you have the willpower. Been IFing since June with great results. I’m shocked that I have the mental and physical fortitude to work out while fasting.  It sure Makes that first meal of the day feel like a reqard

    September 3, 2017 at 10:09 pm #166814
    Feefee
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    As someone who is facing constant disorder chaos and stress and have been for the past seven years or so I know too well that feeling of not knowing which way is up or down.

    This past two weeks have been particularly chaotic for me.

    This works:

    prioritize the things that must be done for EACH DAY and write them down. In your phone. Paper tends to get misplaced.

    Each morning try to get up as early as you possibly can and start on that list. I know it’s scary because some of the things on that list you may simply be too afraid or worried to face or do ( I’m the mistress of procrastination, I know). I know you don’t even want to call your debtor/s because you don’t want to be scolded about car payments in arrears. I know, believe me. But do it.

    Try not to leave anything off today’s list for tomorrow unless it’s physically impossible to do.

    Start there. I know this post is days old but hopefully I have said something that may still be of use to you.

    (((Hugs))

     

    September 3, 2017 at 10:08 pm #166816
    Feefee
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    Louise? How did it go? I too stayed in a relationship way longer than I should have because I felt guilty like I would be pulling the rug out from under him. Truth is he did not deserve my consideration. He too would act like he was hearing my concerns for the first time even though I complained about the same things all the time. Then after I have expressed my hurt over some disrespectful treatment or the other he would look straight at me and say “I don’t know what you’re talking about”. He would constantly accuse me of betrayal ( when all along he was the one sleeping around, I came to find out). Years later I realize that he is mentally unstable. Long story short, after my years of sticking around he left me for another woman in another country, abandoning his kids and responsibilities without a word. I pity her because this man is a psychopath.

    Sorry to to have veered off into my own tale. I’m really interested to know how things turned out for you.

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