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July 14, 2013 at 4:33 am #38563FlorenceParticipant
There is a saying that goes, ” crying is not a sign of weakness, as since birth it has been a sign that we are ALIVE” I am sure you have heard it before, and when i read what you posted that’s what came to my mind. Firstly know this; you can have all the advice in the world, from professionals and friends, but ultimately you have to find peace within yourself. You have to take the giant leap, and heal. This always takes time; some parts of it may never go away. But were you start is by LOVING YOURSELF. You must learn to love your self before you love any other person. This is the greatest gift we can achieve as a human being. The first rule. No one will come down from heaven and lift you out of the whole you have put yourself in. You have to throw yourself the rope! Start by changing the thoughts that run around and around in your mind. Yes, those negative thoughts that swim through your mind, from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to sleep. It’s like a pattern, a habit, once it goes in it’s very hard to get out.
So from the moment you wake up in the morning say to yourself, “I LOVE MYSELF”. And as this new “Idea” is born in your mind you will see that your days go differently. And that you will start to laugh, because you found it funny. If you love your self, you will take back your power and heal yourself, no one can do that for you. If you take a look around you will see that w all have our own issues to deal with day in and day out. We have to be strong in this world. Pray your heart and start to change those thoughts. Watch the change happen in front of your eyes.July 14, 2013 at 4:19 am #38562FlorenceParticipant
I know excatly what you mean Alisha. I am going through the exactly the same thing. I am 22 and trust me when i say , I know i am young and should enjoy being free, but the thing is, it doesnt always work like that. To me i feel, whats more powerful than love with someone in this life? i would do anyting to be in a relationship with somone that i loved and that loved me.
I have recently just met a man, and have been on 1 date, yip, 1 date. And already i am thinking about him non stop. In the past few days of waiting for a text that still hasnt come, here is what i have learnt.
Firstly, the fact that you are in a place that you want love means you are open to it. And that to some degree you appreciate and know it for its beauty. Babe, you have it all in your heart and thats the most powerful gift any one can ever have. And it is inevitable that the love that sits in your heart, will one day attract something amazing. Have faith, in God, In the universe, what ever. Just believe. I am sitting at the moment with an almost pain in my heart, from the longing that is so extreme, but i nkow that God hears my prayers, so i have to LET GO, and trust that it will happen.