Oh, without a doubt, it’s a very personal issue. For many women, success is measured by family, love and children. Men, on the other hand, tend to value work, money and possessions. Still others want the whole enchilada!
Success to me has little to do with material wealth. You’re successful if you are happy. Period. I could say you’re successful if you love your work – and indeed, waking up each day and loving what you do is measure of success. I could say you’re successful if you make a lot of money – again another measure of success. But the person who wakes up every day and puts on that red vest for their job at Wal-Mart, but just happy and ready to face the day – aren’t they just as successful?
What do you love about him? Before you answer…think on this. Never, and I mean never give your love to someone who won’t or can’t give it back. Absolutely nothing can come of it but heart ache and misery. If you love yourself and put yourself first, you’ll see that this is a one-sided relationship. You’ve been mistreated by this person. He understands your feelings and has chosen to ignore them, which shows a level of selfishness and cruelty. You weren’t looking for a booty call…that’s pretty obvious.
So going back to my original question….what is there to love about this man? Has is treated you will love, kindness and respect? Does he show you any adoration or even admiration? Is he polite, sweet and honest? Does he show an interest in your world, your family and your interests?
Don’t settle for less than you deserve….
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