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  • in reply to: How do I handle being hated? #47347
    Greg Frucci
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    “From now on, whatever aggression he directs at me, I know I can let it be transformed in my heart into compassion for him, and how desperately he needs to feel compassion and loving kindness from someone.”

    Beautifully spoken Kel…
    perfection…
    through your deeds…
    you will become a light for him to see and feel warmed by along his path.

    you are welcome…
    and thank you for sharing the challenge you face…
    perhaps you have also helped another who remains in silence…

    peace to you,
    greg

    in reply to: How do I handle being hated? #47309
    Greg Frucci
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    Perhaps, become a Light for the cousin by not allowing how he feels now to affect you in a dark way.

    What?

    Those who are insecure…and I have been one of them in the past…will lash out at those they see as happy and peaceful, perhaps because this is a feeling they wish to have. People who are insecure will reflect the disdain they have for themselves and their life onto others in order to feel strong…yet, this is weakness. This I know from experience.

    Let the winds of negativity blow past you and smile as you bend while not pushing back. In your volunteer work, perhaps you see people in pain…see them wishing for hope. By your selfless work…you give them Light…you give them Faith in a better tomorrow. Perhaps, see the cousin this way.

    I have seen it many times in Life: Negativity thrown at someone and the someone responds back with negativity. This will always be a whirlpool which becomes more difficult to climb out of than if the negativity was first responded to with nothing but silence and a smile. And it has happened to me in the past…in a very powerful and public way. What did I do? I let it get to me for a while…thought about it…and saw the poor souls who had nothing better to do than throw hate. I felt sorry for them and wished them peace in silence. The hate-throwing ceased as all winds will do over time.

    Maybe the cousin will always be this way…but, maybe he will not. The cousin does not wish to be hated deep down…none of us do and I know from the way you write that you are not a hater at all…you simply wish peace and a love filled world where all humans can co-exist in an unconditional loving way.

    Yes, it is indeed hard to remain calm when another attacks. But smiles are infectious in such a wonderful way. His pride is keeping him from apologizing to you…so be it…his choice based in Fear. Many will always wish to apologize to others over a lifetime, yet they will pridefully keep to themselves for a time.

    Change will occur for all of us, but we all are on our own timetables. 🙂 Me? I’m “slow”…it took me fifty years to realize I was negative much of my life…but this is ok, Kel…eventually I “got” what the Universe was trying to tell me. It took going to sea alone in a very small boat and battling intense storms while there to understand the most important lesson of all…for me at least it is this:

    The past no longer exists…the hate-throwing cannot be changed, yet it is no longer.
    The future has yet to happen, so it does not exist either…you can create anything you wish and if you remain positive…so it shall be.
    The only thing which is real is this moment as you read these words…a moment which flows forward with time.

    When you are with your boyfriend and in the presence of the cousin…just be there with them…no past and no future, for they will not exist. Perhaps look the cousin in the eyes with Love in yours and smile. He may not…he may be confused by his fear. Remain peacefully steadfast with your eyes locked onto his and let him feel your kindness with your smile. If you feel a tear come…let it flow…he will see the real you. A loving human such as he…who wants the same thing in life. Peace.

    Tomorrow begins with a little more light than today…
    and each day after, the sun will be a little higher giving warmth to this earth…
    may you be a similar light for all you come into contact with…
    and become an Angel for someone who seeks kindness.

    Blessings and Light,
    Greg

    in reply to: Stuck between two choices #46688
    Greg Frucci
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    Hi Samiha,

    Perhaps quiet the mind of all the external voices who never will know the complete you…
    finding a quiet place with no other human around will make this process easier…
    not thinking of anything in your past including those other human voices…
    not thinking of any future which you or anyone else creates within a human mind…
    and listen to your Voice only.

    Know this…
    you are loved regardless of any choice you make…
    Loved by all that is pure…
    Loved by all that is positive and smiling…
    and you are supported by that which is pure…
    it comes from within your eternal energy.

    If you make a choice which you allow others to force you into making…
    a happiness will be short lived and the happiness will be from the outside…
    when not sustained from within you the energy required to maintain any happiness will soon destroy both you and those around you…
    including those others who wish only the same thing you do in the end…
    Peace.

    Many times in the past of me I have allowed others to make choices…
    just to get them off my back…
    and this process seemed easier…
    easy only lasts a short time when we wish to cease negative thoughts thrown our way…
    but the long lasting affects may create negativity within our inner being…

    Peace comes from within I believe…
    When we create a peace from the inside of us we can radiate the feeling out in all directions and help others help themselves…
    and for me, the is the key point…
    we cannot create a peace for anyone else through decisions we try and make for others…
    we must love and do what is right and pure for the self first which will create both Love and Peace…
    others will feel this…
    others will see this…
    even when they do not agree with you, it they are positive, they will respect your choices when your choices come from Love…
    and the personal choices you make when you make them from listening to your Inner Voice…
    will create the long lasting Peace we all desire to have.

    Listen to others…
    but do not loose your Voice…
    for, the Voice of you knows you best…
    and the Voice of you comes from Love…
    and the Love is Pure.

    We will never be able to “make” anyone else happy…
    no human has this ability…
    nor do we really want this ability?
    create your Happiness Samiha…
    and in the long run…
    others will feel it.

    Peace to you on your individual Life Path…
    Blessings to you as you make Your Choices in Life…
    Know that you are loved from all that is Pure…
    May you find Happiness in all that you do…
    I believe you will…

    🙂

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