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  • in reply to: In new relationship, feelings of old relationship coming up #188741
    gypsygirl
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    Anita, thank you for your advice. That is helpful to try and change my perspective, particularly with true strength vs. appearance of strength.

    in reply to: In new relationship, feelings of old relationship coming up #188699
    gypsygirl
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    Thank you for your quick responses!

     

    Mark – those are all really helpful tips. I especially think that focusing on the future will help keep me out of the past. Thank you for your advice.

     

    Anita – the ex is definitely not an option, I do not want to go back to that relationship even though these feelings have been triggered. I don’t think it is only about a place to live, as I am trying my best to make do with the current situation. I think it is more that I feel I have to be the more decisive, assertive, less sensitive/emotional one and I am not comfortable “wearing the pants” in the relationship. I guess I am asking if there is a way for me to increase my comfort level with that or if there is a way to kindly encourage these traits in him or if there is something else you would suggest. Thank you for your feedback!

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