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  • February 27, 2018 at 1:21 pm #195087
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    Thank you for some sage wisdom…and the links:)

    February 27, 2018 at 10:45 am #195031
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    I had a great friend once who was repeatedly flaky with time commitments and plans. I leaned on her for all kinds of support, but to have her in my life, I had to accept that she was unreliable. By accepting her fully both the good and not-so-good, I was able to get what I needed without judgment of her. For some reason, I felt a lot better and was able to let go of the negative rhetoric about why I might have caused it.

    February 27, 2018 at 10:27 am #195027
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    He said the neglect was “for my own good.” He has offered up some regrets, but justifies it based on his memory of the past. I don’t think he wants to articulate or go back to that painful past in our lives. I want to move on without causing anyone more pain. I will definitely look into the restorative justice idea. Thanks:).

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