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    Arthur
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    I hear you, see it this way then.

    There can’t be a person that you can hate, if you can read their life story.

    As I have read before, people are the result of their past experiences. So your coworker is facing his own demons, but it is good that you realize that they are affecting your own trauma. Here is what you can do about it.

    Try to think about it from your coworker’s perspective, literally take pity on him and don’t dwell on these negative thoughts. If none of above works, try keeping your distance from him.

    #145111
    Arthur
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    Man listen up, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

    As a matter of fact, from what I have read, it is the girl that is facing a deep inferiority complex. And to cover her inner voice which keeps reminding her ‘I am not good enough’, she shows herself as high and mighty, unfortunately for you, she had to make you look down for her too feel good.

    Its a very good decision to end it, especially when you have been groomed in a way to respect women like that. She is like a broken glass, interacting with her will only get you hurt.

    Take my advice to heart, it is good to be sweet, but don’t be too sweet like honey or people will swallow you. And don’t be too bitter, or people will spit you out.

    When someone says something bad about you, you answer them back confidently. Your answer doesn’t have to be a counter insult, or a boast about yourself but it has to portray an air of confidence that is etched within your bones saying ‘You can believe in whatever you believe in, I know who I am, and I love it and you know you love it’

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