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  • in reply to: Did I make the right decision? #117968
    Kadidja
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    Again thank you ๐Ÿ™‚

    in reply to: Did I make the right decision? #117950
    Kadidja
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    Thanks everyone for the advice! Im grateful for your kindNess ๐Ÿ™‚ I don’t know if I’ll be number 1 or be that special person bUT I will keep taking care of myself and not wanting to find someone anymore. Again thank you!

    in reply to: Did I make the right decision? #117949
    Kadidja
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    Mishika, thats what I have been doing as well. But thank you anyways ๐Ÿ™‚

    in reply to: Did I make the right decision? #117948
    Kadidja
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    Ninja, I see where you’re coming from. It’s just I thought she would be different. I had former vest friends and I thought molly would be completely different. I haven’t spoken to her and I’m never going to talk to her again. I’m Not looking for that special friend anymore because I’m going to put myself first. When my therapist told me that life is too short, I was telling myself that I have to start taking better care of myself. I don’t want to live a life of trying to make someone stay in my life anymore.

    in reply to: Did I make the right decision? #117947
    Kadidja
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    Anita thank you ๐Ÿ™‚ I am sticking to my guns and not talking to her for good.

    in reply to: Did I make the right decision? #117921
    Kadidja
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    I didn’t want to ask her to spend time with me anymore. I had to accept that she’ll keep spending more time with him. I was also tired of her excuses and gals promises. It really hurt when she didn’t speak to me over a month after she told me she’ll speak to me in 2 weeks. I asked myself don’t I deserve better? None of my friends don’t give me false promises and excuses like she did. The more I kept tolerating what she did the more excuses I kept getting from her. My therapist told me that If I continue to still be her friend, then I have to accept what she’s been doing but I’ll only keep getting hurt. He told me that I have been feeling miserable with what she’s doing and that I have to focus more on myself. When I told her, I didn’t want to be her friend anymore, I cried. It was a mixture of relief and sadness. I don’t want to keep hurting her but I don’t want myself to keep getting the short end of the stick

    in reply to: Did I make the right decision? #117919
    Kadidja
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    Because none of my friends promised me that they want to be with me forรชver. They never promised me well grow old together liked she did. I believed her. Every little sweet thing she told me, I believed her words. It’s what you told me about how I wanted her attention and to always be her number 1. I should have listened to you and left her months ago but I wanted to give her another chance and see if out friendship will be netter. After speaking to a therapist, I also realized that she won’t really listen to what I’m teking her unless I take my anger out anymore. I didn’t want to hurt her anymore but I didn’t want myself to be hurt by her and my choices. So I decided to leave her for good

    in reply to: Did I make the right decision? #117887
    Kadidja
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    I already dealt with my issues. I’m not like this with all of my friends. Even my friends see it too. They told me that she would rather be with her boyfriend than be with me. She would spend HOURS with him. But only a minute with me. I was always the one trying to make our friendship work. She stopped putting in effort in our relationship. I’m in college, finding a job and making sure I spend time with myself and wwith my friends. I do know how to balance my life out. She wouldn’t even message me for weeks! I understand that she has her own life butshe has her own issues too. She used to tell me what would happen with her bipolar disorder and I used to tell her my anxiety issues as well. I gave her chance after chance. Even when I would spend time being with my friends and family and with myself, a part of me just wanted to end a dead relationship and the other part kept missing her. She would be active on Facebook with her bf, forgetting about me. (Until I message her) if she can make loads of time with her boyfriend who lives in Oregon and she lIves in the UK than why she stopped making time for me. No mater how many times I told her jat I missed her, most of the time it would end with I know. I had enough of it. I did my very best to be patient with her. She knew how I felt and didn’t care.

    in reply to: Did I make the right decision? #117819
    Kadidja
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    I’m sorry for the grammatical errors. ๐Ÿ™ I was crying while I was typing this ,and I did not correct my mistakes.

    in reply to: Did I make the right decision? #117816
    Kadidja
    Participant

    *overreacting

    in reply to: Controlling my emotions #108469
    Kadidja
    Participant

    Okay, I’ll do that now. Thank you again.

    in reply to: Controlling my emotions #108464
    Kadidja
    Participant

    *better

    in reply to: Controlling my emotions #108463
    Kadidja
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    I graduated last month and won’t attend college till October. When I was in high school, I went to a couple of teachers for advice. Their advice
    Has helped me a lot and I was able to change. But since I left, it’s been a little bit hard to try to change on my own. After you helped me got to the root of my problem, I was thinking is there a way for me to control my emotions veteran. For example, if I feel hurt by a close friend. I want to understand my friends intentions and be able to remain calm and patient. As for crying, I have been cryin for the past few day. But I have been feeling better.

    in reply to: Controlling my emotions #108454
    Kadidja
    Participant

    Thank you ๐Ÿ™‚

    in reply to: Controlling my emotions #108453
    Kadidja
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    My mom won’t take me to psychotherapy. She is too busy..My dad won’t take me either because he bbelieves that I don’t need it.

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