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  • July 14, 2019 at 4:36 pm #303281
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    Mark,

    I think it was very helpful that you think I should seek out a therapist or counselor, I think that would benefit me in many ways. In regards to what you said about building a life, I have no issue building a life for me without him, but in the end I always end up wishing it was a life we shared together. I want him to want to be in it as well, but as a better man. I do find myself enjoying my time alone more than with anyone, but in the back of my mind is always him and I have a hard time letting go. I do not know how to let go.

    Thank you,

    Grace

    July 14, 2019 at 8:36 am #303267
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    Christine,

    I want you to keep in mind that you and Derrick are not in a relationship. You may love him, and that’s okay, but don’t talk yourself into being faithful to someone you don’t owe loyalty to in that way. The feeling does not seem mutual. If he isn’t ready to be in a committed relationship, you have no business thinking of him after you get intimate with other people. It sounds to me like you are searching for love in the wrong place. You just graduated college, go out and don’t let Derrick hold you back. You might feel like you love him, but you owe him nothing. Keep strong and remember to always do what makes you happy regardless of what you think Derrick is going to think. Be loyal to yourself and your heart first, and for what its worth, forget about Derrick because he is holding you back.

    Best Regards,

    Grace

    July 14, 2019 at 8:10 am #303263
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    When we first got together, I was 14 and he was 13. I am now 19, and he is 17.

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