Soffy, if someone who is intimate with you hasnt told you he loves you in all that time, then hes not likely to i feel……its hard to move away from someone youve invested time and emotion in – and you say he “took” your virginity – from what you say, you gave it, that may sound harsh but from what you are writing i doubt he took something that wasnt given – in your case through love. We move on – and on and are very fortunate if we dont get hurt throughout life – i guess its the way we learn about ourselves and others. Down the line, your feelings will have changed. Thats the way it is, what seems so vital to us now usually isnt at some point in the future. All the best to you.