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December 22, 2016 at 2:29 pm #123333
Definitely not my friend! Your journey has just begun… I truly believe you will find someone who is compatible and you can grow with… it just takes time.
In the mean time… focus on yourself. I know it may sound cliche, but you do need to love yourself first in order to form a healthy relationship. Find a new hobby, hangout with friends, read a new book, go out and meet people, listen to music… listen to your thoughts and focus on why you are wanting a partner so badly… you may be lacking something within yourself that you need to further look into. Perhaps try to be full alone rather than trying to have another individual fill the ‘void’.
I believe in you and know that you are worthy of the best kind of love. I believe you are strong for repeating these similar relationships in order to further search for a companion.
Good luck and please keep me updated with your feelings! Remember to always release your emotions instead of suppressing.December 22, 2016 at 12:10 pm #123318
So I have attempted to contact my past two lovers in search of an initial reason of why they lost interest in me…
The texts were mature and I believe I got my point across well.
The two lovers have both yet to respond…December 21, 2016 at 8:07 pm #123266
I asked a couple of them and if they reply, i will let you know. I appreciate you Anita. You are a light in this world and you have honestly been so supportive in my life lately. Thank you so much.December 21, 2016 at 7:15 pm #123259
I feel as if the universe is either saving someone special for me, or I just need to work on myself more and figure out what it is i’m doing to repel all relationship growth… maybe both?December 21, 2016 at 7:11 pm #123258
Honestly… no. Ive wondered this since I started dating when I was 18.
I have finally been open about my sexual abuse by my step father this year.. I kept it to myself up until this point. I’m not sure what could’ve driven the others away.December 21, 2016 at 6:58 pm #123253
thank you Anita ! I feel so much better about that situation, or when I think of family in general. Lots of growth is on the way and I am ready for all of it.
I’m not sure how I scared him… I remember everything going really well. I know I had a lot going on at the time after I got home from Virginia. I could tell I was acting a bit off, thinking about my step fathers sexual abuse with me… I did end up telling him about him… and instead of supporting me, he bailed. I guess that is what scared him?December 16, 2016 at 6:58 am #122859
Thank you both! I appreciate your kind words and wisdom.
I cut ties with her and I feel free, I feel like I’m being honest and real and that I have a huge weight lifted off my shoulders.
Therapy would be awesome but i just can’t afford it.