Thank you for that. I never really thought of it in that way.  I definitely want to be financially free and so does he. He has started a new job which will be more money and so am I.

Thank you

Hi,

my parents know we are living together but they do not like him and are hoping it fails. It affects me but I do not think it is the main reason for this.

not great. I am progressing in my career so I will be moving up financially but we would not have money for a wedding for a while.

i just turned 30 and he is 34. We met in England but I am not from here and moved here for him. We have been together 3 years. We did move in quickly  and live with his parents for a couple of years. We now live on our own but we do not do much as we seem to live pay check to pay check. So our lives are not as exciting as I would like.  I do work a lot so part of it might be my fault as well and I’m tired a lot due to it

no I would not be able to live with my parents.  I love them dearly but we do struggle massively as they are older and very judgmental.  I am old enough to go on with life but i was adopted and they saved my life so I feel indebted to them. I want them to like him.

Yes but it’s more the often anxiety spike in a way. Then I think oh I’m actually into this and I’m thinking too much and it goes away and I start thinking am I into this,  will I get turned on. That ovb does not help me at all. I feel like I avoid it. But I do want to have sex.